salam aleykum brothers and sisters.. how are you today ? hopefully, all of us are in Allah's rahmah ^^
as a musleem scholar , we sure need to avoid these characteristic :
swearing
cursing
lying
back-biting
so , for us, this ramadhan is the best period of time to restrain our tongue :)
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “Whoever does not give up forged speech and evil actions, Allah is not in need of his leaving his food and drink (ie. Allah will not accept his fasting.)” [Bukhari]
ok let's start.
1. LEAVE THINGS WHICH DOES NOT CONCERN US.
hehe, basically this refers to girls. other word : gossiping.
do not concern things that is not necessary for us to know such as what someone else have said or done wrong.
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: “From the excellence of a man’s Islam is leaving that which does not concern him.” [Bukhari]
2. SILENT!
silence is golden^^
before we speak, ask ourselves either it will be a benefit or a harm ?? is it productive or unproductive talk ?
do some experiment to check the time uve spent on productive / unproductive talk.
u just need a timer. keep a tab on how many hours/minutes you speak each day, and the topic that u covers as well. the results can be revealing.
3. CONCEAL THE FAULTS OF OTHERS (tutup aib orang lain)
it is the art of keeping the mouth silence also. hehe
Once the Prophet (peace be upon him) was asked: “O Messenger of Allah, which of the Muslims is best?” And he said, “He who the Muslims are safe from his tongue and his hand.” [Riyadh as-Saliheen]
we are more likely to disclose other's fault and conceal our own, yet we should remind ourselvesof the time we would wish our faults to be concealed.
4. CHECK BEFORE YOU SEND.
with the advent of technology, our conversation is now in our fingertips. as such, via cellular phone, emails, FACEBOOK, TWITTER, VLOGGING , etc.
the speed of it all makes us sometimes hit the send button before we evaluate what we have to say.
the purpose is same as well as talking to others.
check either it is a good or bad things.
is it beneficial ?
then if it is positive , click send/share.
i think.. it is enough for today.. insyaAllah jumpa lagi next timee! hee~
(reading from a blog , yet di simple kan )
salam ramadhan kareem, moga memperoleh keberkatan. ^___^
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